Understanding Male Masturbation
Masturbation is a normal and natural way to explore your body and understand what feels good. It's a private activity and an important part of sexual health. At 15, it's common to start learning about your body and how to pleasure yourself safely.
Using Lubricants
Lubricants reduce friction and can make masturbation more comfortable, especially when using sex toys. Since your mother provided the lubricant, it’s likely safe for your body, but always make sure to:
- Check the ingredient list for any allergies.
- Use water-based lubricants, as they are safe to use with most sex toys.
- Avoid using too much to prevent mess, but enough to reduce friction.
Using Sex Toys Safely
Sex toys can enhance your masturbation experience, but safety is key:
- Cleanliness: Always clean the toy before and after use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner.
- Material: Use toys made of body-safe materials like silicone.
- Lubrication: Use an appropriate lubricant to prevent discomfort and reduce risk of injury.
- Privacy and Storage: Store the toy in a clean, private place.
Techniques
Here are some techniques you might try while using lubricant and sex toys:
- Hand stimulation: Use your hand to lightly or firmly stroke the penis, adjusting pressure and speed to find what feels best.
- Combine with lubrication: Apply lubricant to your hand and penis to decrease friction and increase pleasure.
- Using a toy: Follow the toy’s intended use—some are designed for stroking motion while others might provide vibration or other sensations. Experiment gently with speed and pressure.
- Relaxation: Being relaxed and in a comfortable environment helps increase pleasure and reduces any tension.
Important Tips
- Never share sex toys without properly cleaning them to avoid infections.
- Stop if you feel pain or discomfort.
- Respect your privacy and personal boundaries.
- It’s normal to explore and learn about your own body at your own pace.
When to Talk to Someone
If you have questions, concerns about your body, or sexual health, consider speaking with a trusted adult such as a parent, healthcare provider, or school counselor.
Remember, masturbation is a safe and natural behavior when done with care and respect for your body.