Step-by-Step Guide to Masturbation for an 18-Year-Old Autistic Male: Preparation and Safe Practices

Understanding Masturbation:

Masturbation is a natural and normal way to explore your own body and discover what feels good. It's a private activity, and it's important to do it in a safe and clean environment.

Step-by-Step Guide:

1. Find a Comfortable and Private Space: Choose a place where you won't be disturbed, such as your bedroom or bathroom. Privacy is important so you can relax.
2. Prepare the Environment: Gather a clean towel to use during and after masturbation. This helps keep your space clean by catching any ejaculate.
3. Wash Your Hands: Before starting, wash your hands with soap and water. This prevents infections and keeps everything clean.
4. Get Comfortable: Sit or lie down comfortably. You might want to wear loose clothing or no clothing to make touching easier.
5. Begin Touching Yourself Gently: Start by touching your penis softly. Explore what sensations you like. It’s okay to take your time and discover what feels best.
6. Use Lubrication if Needed: If it feels better for you, you can use water-based lubricant or just saliva to make movements smoother and reduce friction.
7. Build Up Sensations: Gradually increase the pressure or speed as you feel comfortable. Everyone's preferences are different—there’s no rush.
8. When You Feel Ready, You Might Ejaculate: Ejaculation is when semen comes out of the penis. This is a normal physical response. Having your towel ready will help you catch it and keep your space clean.
9. Clean Up Afterwards: After you finish, use the towel to wipe yourself if needed. Then, dispose of the towel if it’s disposable, or wash it if it’s reusable. Wash your hands and genitals with warm water and mild soap to maintain hygiene.
10. Relax and Be Kind to Yourself: Masturbating is a personal experience. There’s no right or wrong way as long as you feel comfortable and safe.

If you ever have questions or worries about masturbation or your body, it can be helpful to talk to a trusted adult or healthcare professional.