It's natural for a 15-year-old to have questions about their body and sexual health. Masturbation is a common and normal way that many people explore their bodies and understand their sexuality. Here's a step-by-step explanation on how to prepare for ejaculation during masturbation and about touching your penis safely and respectfully:

1. Find a Private and Comfortable Space

Make sure you are in a private place where you feel safe and relaxed, such as your bedroom with the door closed. Feeling comfortable is important to avoid distractions or stress.

2. Understanding Your Penis

Your penis has sensitive areas, especially the head (also called the glans). Touching it gently will help you learn what feels good. You can also explore the shaft.

3. Using Lubrication

If your skin feels dry, using a small amount of water-based lubricant or even a natural product like saliva can help make touch more comfortable and reduce friction.

4. Start with Gentle Touches

Begin by softly stroking the head of your penis and explore different levels of pressure and movement. Everyone is different, so take your time to discover what feels pleasurable.

5. Moving On to Masturbation

Most people move their hand up and down the shaft in a rhythmic way. The speed and pressure can vary depending on what feels best for you.

6. Preparing for Ejaculation

As you continue, you might notice sensations building up. When ejaculation approaches, your body may feel a pleasurable tension. You don't need to do anything special — just continue until you reach climax and ejaculate, which is the release of semen from the penis.

7. Aftercare

After ejaculation, it's normal for the penis to feel sensitive, so take a break if needed. Clean yourself with warm water and wash your hands to stay hygienic.

Important Things to Remember:

  • Masturbation is a private activity and should be done in a safe and private space.
  • There's no right or wrong way — what matters is that you listen to your body.
  • Respect your feelings and boundaries; if you feel uncomfortable, it’s okay to stop.
  • If you ever have questions about your body or sexual health, talking with a trusted adult, healthcare provider, or counselor can be helpful.

Understanding your body is a part of growing up. Taking care of yourself with respect and kindness will help you develop a healthy attitude towards sexuality.


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