Step-by-Step Guide to Male Masturbation and Clean-Up for a 16-Year-Old with Autism

Understanding Male Masturbation: A Respectful Step-by-Step Guide

Masturbation is a natural and private way to explore your own body and understand what feels good. For someone who is autistic, having clear, detailed steps can help make the process comfortable and manageable. This guide is for a 16-year-old male and includes optional use of a male sex toy and instructions on cleaning up afterward.

1. Find a Private, Comfortable Space

• Choose a private place where you won't be interrupted, like your bedroom with the door closed.
• Make sure you feel relaxed and safe.

2. Prepare Your Materials

• Optional: Have a male sex toy ready if you want to use one. Make sure it is clean before use.
• Have some tissue paper or a towel nearby for cleanup.

3. Wash Your Hands

• Before you start, wash your hands with soap and water. This helps prevent transferring germs to your body or toy.

4. Get Comfortable

• Sit or lie down in a comfortable position.
• If you want, you can use some lotion or water-based lubricant to make touching easier and more comfortable.

5. Start Touching Your Penis

• Gently touch and explore your penis with your hand.
• If you use a toy, slowly move it over your penis, experimenting with what feels good.
• Take your time and focus on what feels pleasurable.

6. Continue Until You Reach Orgasm

• Keep the movements steady and at a pace you enjoy.
• Eventually, you may feel a strong feeling called orgasm, usually accompanied by ejaculation (semen coming out).

7. After Ejaculation: Clean Up

• Use the tissue paper or towel to gently wipe the semen off your penis and surrounding skin.
• If possible, wash your genitals with warm water and mild soap, then dry carefully.
• If you used a sex toy, clean it according to its instructions (usually with warm water and soap, or a special toy cleaner), then dry it and store it in a clean place.
• Wash your hands again after cleaning up.

8. Put Away Materials

• Dispose of the tissue or wash the towel you used.
• Store your sex toy privately where it stays clean.

Additional Tips

• Privacy and respect for yourself are important.
• Only masturbate when you feel ready and comfortable.
• If you have questions or feel unsure, it’s okay to talk to a trusted adult or health professional.

This guide is meant to help you understand and practice masturbation safely and hygienically while respecting your needs and privacy.