A clear and age-appropriate explanation about masturbation, emphasizing privacy and comfort for a 14-year-old.
It's important to approach topics about sexuality, including masturbation, with sensitivity and respect for privacy. Masturbation is a natural and normal activity that many people begin to explore during adolescence.
Regarding whether your son should take his clothes off, it's generally best to do so in a private, safe space where he feels comfortable and secure. Privacy helps ensure that he can explore his feelings without embarrassment or interruption. This means that if he wants to masturbate, removing clothing can make the experience more comfortable. However, the key point is that it should be done when he is alone and in a place where he feels safe.
It's also important to have open and honest communication about bodily changes and feelings he might be experiencing. Encourage questions and reassure him that his feelings are normal and that he can come to you or another trusted adult if he wants to talk.