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It's important to recognize that sexual orientation and fetishes are related to different aspects of human sexuality.

Sexual orientation refers to the pattern of emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction you feel toward others, such as being attracted to people of the same gender (gay or lesbian), different genders (heterosexual), or more than one gender (bisexual or pansexual).

Fetishes or sexual interests, like a futanari fetish, involve being sexually attracted to specific characteristics, scenarios, or fantasies. In this case, a futanari fetish relates to attraction to fictional characters with both male and female sexual traits.

Having a futanari fetish does not necessarily determine whether you are gay, straight, or bisexual. It's possible for someone with any sexual orientation to enjoy certain fantasies or fetishes that don't perfectly align with their orientation. For example, a person attracted to women might have a fetish involving male characteristics, or vice versa.

In summary, your fetishes are a part of your sexual interests but don't define your sexual orientation. If you're exploring your feelings and attractions, take your time to understand what makes you feel comfortable and authentic. If you have questions or feel confused, talking to a trusted counselor, therapist, or LGBTQ+ support group can be very helpful.

Remember, sexuality is a broad and individual spectrum, and all feelings and attractions are valid as long as they are consensual and safe.


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Is futa gay
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No. Futanari (futa) is a fetish or fantasy, not a sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is about who you are attracted to in real life or in potential romantic/sexual relationships (e.g., straight/heterosexual, gay, bisexual, pansexual, etc.). A futanari fetish can be present for people of any orientation. So having an interest in futanari doesn’t automatically make you gay.

If you’re sorting out your orientation, consider who you’re attracted to in real-life situations and relationships, not just fantasies. Some people may have fantasies that don’t perfectly match their orientation labels. If you’re feeling unsure or want support, talking to a trusted counselor, therapist, or LGBTQ+-friendly resource can help. Remember that sexuality is diverse, and what matters most is understanding what feels authentic and consensual for you.

Asked 4/1/2026