Overview

Masturbation is a common, normal activity. Because you said you have very limited sexual knowledge, below is straightforward, non-graphic guidance focused on safety, basic anatomy, what sensations are typical, how to stay clean, and how to protect your privacy. I will not provide explicit pornographic descriptions, but I will explain what happens and how to do this in a way that reduces risk of injury or embarrassment.

Basic anatomy and what to expect

• Penis: the external organ used for urination and sexual stimulation. The head (glans) and the shaft are the primary sensitive areas.
• Erection: when you become sexually aroused, blood flows into the penis causing it to become firmer and larger. This is normal and is the body preparing for sexual activity.
• Arousal sensations: many people feel increasing warmth, tension, and pleasurable sensitivity in the penis, groin, and sometimes the whole body as arousal builds.
• Orgasm and ejaculation (physiological description): orgasm is a brief period of intense pleasure associated with involuntary muscular contractions in the pelvic area. In many males, orgasm is accompanied by ejaculation: a release of semen through the urethra. The sensations are typically a peak of pleasure followed by relaxation.

Safe, step-by-step approach (non-graphic)

1. Prepare a private, comfortable space: lock the door or use do-not-disturb, dim the lights if you prefer, sit or lie down somewhere comfortable. Have a towel or tissues nearby to manage fluids and protect bedding.
2. Wash your hands first: clean hands reduce the risk of introducing bacteria. Trim or file nails so they won’t scratch sensitive skin.
3. Use lubrication if needed: a water-based lubricant can reduce friction and make stimulation more comfortable. Avoid household oils (they can irritate and damage condoms).
4. Start gently and explore: begin with light touch to find what feels comfortable. Increase or change pressure, speed, or location gradually to learn what feels best. Pay attention to your breathing and bodily sensations; stop or change anything that causes pain.
5. Recognize building arousal: as you continue, sensation typically intensifies. If you want to reach orgasm, maintain the stimulation that feels best. If you don’t want to orgasm, slow down or stop stimulation.
6. Orgasm and ejaculation: when orgasm occurs, most people feel a rapid, intense release of pleasure; if ejaculation happens, semen will exit through the tip of the penis. This is a normal biological response for many males but not everyone experiences ejaculation with orgasm.
7. Aftercare: use a tissue or towel to catch any semen and then flush tissues or dispose of them in the trash. Wash your hands and genitals with warm water and mild soap if desired. If you used a towel on bedding, launder it when convenient.

Cleanliness and managing semen

• Have tissues or a towel ready to catch semen so it doesn’t get on furniture or bedding. Tissues can be flushed if composting or disposal rules allow — otherwise wrap them and place them in the trash.
• Wash your hands and genitals after finishing. A quick rinse with warm water or gentle soap is sufficient for most people.
• If semen gets on clothing or bedding, wash those items in the laundry as usual.

Privacy and digital safety

• Ensure the room is private (lock the door) and put your phone on do-not-disturb to avoid interruptions.
• If you view sexual content, be mindful of privacy (saved files, browser history) and of legal/ethical considerations (age and consent of performers).

Safety tips and things to avoid

• Avoid using objects that could cause injury, get stuck, or damage tissue. Household items are not designed for this purpose.
• Do not use very rough pressure or friction; repeated harsh rubbing can cause soreness, skin breakdown, or temporary numbness.
• If you use lubrication, prefer water-based products to avoid irritation and to be safe with condoms.
• Masturbation is normal and generally healthy. If it interferes with daily life, responsibilities, work or relationships, consider speaking with a health professional or counselor.

When to see a doctor or sexual health professional

• Persistent pain during or after stimulation
• Bleeding from the penis or blood in semen
• Any lumps, bumps, or unusual discharge
• Major changes in erections or ejaculation that concern you
• Compulsive behavior you can’t control or that harms your life

Reliable resources

• Planned Parenthood (sex education and health information)
• NHS (UK) or your local health authority’s sexual health webpages
• A primary care physician, urologist, or sexual health clinic for medical questions
• Certified sex therapists or counselors for relationship or behavior concerns

If you want more detail about anatomy, how the body responds physiologically, or about sexual health services, tell me which specific area you want to learn about and I can explain in a factual, non-graphic way or point you to reliable educational resources.