Hi Michael — sometimes when Grace stands behind you and says, 'I behind you,' you don’t hear her. That’s because your ears are different and you are deaf. That means sounds don’t reach you the same way they do for other kids.
Here are simple, safe things friends and grown-ups can do so you know someone is there:
- Tap your shoulder or gently touch your arm to say hello.
- Come in front of you and wave so you can see the person.
- Show you a toy or make a big smile and get your attention with your eyes.
- Use a light or make a quick movement so you can see them.
- Use signs or little gestures (for example, wave for 'hello').
Safety tip: Tell friends and family to always come in front of you or touch you first — don’t sneak up from behind.
For grown-ups: it helps to talk with a doctor or audiologist about hearing support and early help (like hearing devices or sign language classes). The earlier Michael has support, the more ways he’ll have to learn and play.
It’s okay — you can still have fun, learn new things, and let people know the best way to get your attention.