Dear 46yo Sister,
Obj. 1: candor; Obj. 2: accountability—let’s dispense with the theatrics and address the elephants with the legalese of truth-telling, shall we?
1) Mystery Visitor: Your recent communications omit the obvious question: who was the mysterious female on the security feed? The footage shows a third party lounging at the neighbour’s fence, then a sit on our front steps while you circled and rattled our door and later proceeded to our neighbour’s residence. Plainly, the presence of another adult during an unannounced visit must be acknowledged. Why this omission?
2) How private address became public: There is a troubling implication that someone provided a private address to enable a doorstep visit. If any private address was shared, by whom, and under what authorization was that done? The chain of custody for personal information matters, and I require transparent disclosure about this breach of privacy.
To be clear, I am not seeking drama—I seek candor. Until we can speak truthfully about those two points, the rest of the discourse risks being a collage of misdirections. I am open to a calm, boundaries-respecting conversation, led by accountability and care for the child involved.
Respectfully,
42yo Sister