Dear 46yo,
With candor and courtesy, I address your cascade of claims: two emails have now gone unanswered by you, yet you still omit the second adult who accompanied you during the unannounced visit. Additionally, my private information appears to have circulated without consent—an egregious breach you have not acknowledged. I do not monitor your Christmas or birthday emails, and the spate of long‑distance messages does not establish a close family bond or warrant intrusion by police or welfare checks on me or my child. Please identify the second adult and cease further unsolicited, invasive contact.
Sincerely,
Your sister