Boundaries and Candor: A concise, boundary‑driven reply
Dear 46yo sister,
Two emails exist, yet you still omit essential facts: (1) who was the second adult present during the unannounced visit, and (2) how my private address circulated so you could plan an ambush. I value honesty, safety, and privacy for me and my daughter, and I will not engage in speculation or drama. Please name the second adult and disclose the source of my address. Until then, future contact must be consented, purposeful, and respectful. I wish you well and will pause until verifiable candor arrives.
With measured regard, 42yo