Subject: Boundaries and care
Dear 46-year-old sister, your urgency rings hollow without details. Who accompanied you on the unannounced visit? How was my private address obtained and circulated? For my daughter’s safety, I require transparency and explicit consent for any future contact. I won’t engage in insinuations or old grievances presented as care. If you wish to talk, do so with candor, a named guest list, and a clear purpose—no surprise visits. Until then, I protect our peace with measured distance and boundary-respecting communication.