Your body belongs to you. Private parts are the parts of your body usually covered by a swimsuit, including your genitals, bottom, and chest.
It is okay to use the correct names for body parts and to ask questions. You can say “no” to a touch that makes you uncomfortable, even if the person is someone you know.
Sometimes a parent or caregiver may help with bathing or toileting, or a health professional may need to examine your body to keep you healthy. A trusted grown-up should explain what is happening and help you feel safe.
- If someone asks to see or touch your private parts, asks you to touch theirs, or makes you feel worried, move away if you can and tell a trusted adult.
- You can tell a parent, caregiver, teacher, or another safe grown-up. Keep telling until someone helps.
- No one should ask you to keep a secret about touching or pictures of private parts.
Remember: You are not in trouble for telling, and it is never your fault if someone breaks a body-safety rule.