Learn simple steps to help 6-year-olds resolve conflicts with friends and restore their friendships in a positive way.
It's normal to have disagreements with friends sometimes. Here’s a simple way to work through a conflict together!
When you feel upset or angry, it's good to take a deep breath. This can help you feel calmer. Count to three while breathing in and out.
Find a quiet place and sit down with your friend. Tell them how you feel. You can say, "I felt sad when you didn’t let me play too." Use "I" statements to express your feelings without blaming your friend.
After sharing your feelings, give your friend a chance to talk. Listen carefully to what they say. They might feel sad or upset too, and it’s important to understand their side.
Think of a way to fix the problem together. Ask your friend, "What can we do so we can both be happy?" This way, you both have a chance to share ideas on how to move on.
If you did something that hurt your friend’s feelings, it’s nice to say you’re sorry. And if they say sorry to you, remember to forgive them. This helps to make the friendship strong again!
Once you’ve talked and solved the problem, it’s time to play together again! You could do something fun, like building with blocks or drawing together.
Remember, it's okay to have conflicts sometimes, but handling them well can make your friendship even better!