Objective

By the end of this lesson, Gabrielle will understand the basics of starting a conversation, including how to approach someone, what questions to ask, and how to keep the conversation going. She will feel more confident in her ability to engage with others and make new friends.

Materials and Prep

• Notebook and pen for note-taking
• A comfortable space for practice conversations
• Timer (optional, can use a phone)

Before the lesson, think about some people Gabrielle might want to talk to, like classmates, neighbors, or family friends. Encourage her to be open-minded and ready to practice!

Activities

• Icebreaker Questions: Gabrielle will write down five fun icebreaker questions that she can use to start a conversation, such as "If you could have any superpower, what would it be?"
• Role-Playing: Gabrielle will pair up with a family member or friend to practice starting conversations using her icebreaker questions. Each person will take turns being the speaker and the listener.
• Conversation Starters Game: Gabrielle will create a game where she draws a random conversation starter from a jar and has to engage in a 2-minute conversation about it.
• Reflection: Gabrielle will take a few minutes to write about her feelings before and after the activities. What did she find easy or challenging?

Talking Points

• "Starting a conversation can feel a bit scary, but remember, everyone feels shy sometimes!"
• "A great way to start is with a smile and a friendly greeting, like 'Hi! How are you today?'"
• "Asking open-ended questions, like 'What do you like to do in your free time?' can help keep the conversation flowing!"
• "It's important to listen actively. Show you’re interested by nodding and making eye contact!"
• "If the conversation starts to fade, you can always ask a follow-up question, like 'Why do you like that hobby?'"
• "Don't worry if there are pauses; they’re natural! You can use them to think of your next question."
• "If you’re nervous, practice with friends or family first. The more you practice, the easier it gets!"
• "Remember, everyone loves to talk about themselves. Asking about their interests can be a great way to connect!"
• "If you feel stuck, you can always share something about yourself to keep the conversation going!"
• "Don't forget to thank the person for chatting with you. A simple 'It was nice talking to you!' goes a long way!"
• "Starting conversations is a skill, and like any skill, it gets better with practice!"
• "Be yourself! Authenticity makes conversations more enjoyable for both you and the other person."
• "Lastly, have fun! Conversations are a chance to make new friends and learn new things!"