Talking to My Best Friend: Praying About Everything
Lesson Overview
Goal: To help children understand that prayer is a continuous conversation with God about every part of their lives—from the biggest worries to the smallest joys.
Learning Objectives:
- Students will define prayer as "talking and listening to God."
- Students will identify at least three different things they can pray about (Gratitude, Worries, Others).
- Students will create a "Prayer Jar" to help them remember to pray throughout the day.
Materials Needed
- A clean jar or container (plastic or glass)
- Craft sticks or small slips of colorful paper
- Markers, stickers, and ribbons
- A "Walkie-Talkie" (can be a toy or a drawing)
- Glue or tape
1. Introduction: The Never-Ending Call (The Hook)
The Hook: Hold up a toy walkie-talkie or a picture of a phone. Ask: "Have you ever wanted to tell your best friend something really cool, but they weren't home? Or have you ever felt a little scared and wished someone was right there to hold your hand?"
The Concept: Explain that we have a "Super Walkie-Talkie" to God. God is never too busy, never sleeping, and never out of range. We don't need a special building or special big words; we just talk!
Objective Statement: "Today, we are going to learn that we can talk to God about everything—even the tiny things like a lost lego or a yummy sandwich!"
2. Body: How to Talk About Everything (I Do, We Do, You Do)
I Do: Modeling the Conversation
The teacher/parent demonstrates that prayer isn't just for bedtime. Think out loud through your day:
- "I just saw a beautiful red bird! I'm going to say: 'God, thank you for making that cool bird!'"
- "Oh no, I spilled my water. I feel frustrated. I'll say: 'God, please help me stay calm while I clean this up.'"
- "I heard Grandma has a cold. I'll say: 'God, please help Grandma feel better soon.'"
We Do: The "Everything Brainstorm"
On a large piece of paper, draw three big circles. Together, fill them with ideas from the student’s life:
- Circle 1: Happy Things (Gratitude) - Examples: Pizza, sunshine, my pet, jumping on the trampoline.
- Circle 2: Ouchie/Sad Things (Requests) - Examples: Scraped knee, feeling lonely, a bad dream.
- Circle 3: People I Love (Intercession) - Examples: Mom, Dad, friends at school, my teacher.
Check for Understanding: Ask the student, "Can I pray about finding my favorite socks?" (Yes!) "Can I pray about being excited for my birthday?" (Yes!)
You Do: The Prayer Jar Project
Now the student creates a tool to make "praying about everything" a habit.
- Decorate: Let the student decorate their jar with stickers and labels like "My Talks with God."
- Create Prompt Sticks: On the craft sticks (or paper slips), have the student write or draw one thing from their brainstorm lists.
- The Practice: Have the student pick one stick right now and model a 10-second prayer based on what is written.
3. Conclusion: Small Talks, Big Love
Summary: Recap that God loves to hear from us. It doesn't have to be a "fancy" prayer. Just like you talk to your friends about your favorite games, you can talk to God about your whole day.
The "Check-Out" Question: "Where are three places you can pray today?" (Encourage answers like: in the car, at the dinner table, on the swing, in bed).
Success Criteria
The student has successfully met the objectives if they can:
- Explain that prayer is simply "talking to God."
- Name one "happy" thing and one "hard" thing they can talk to God about.
- Use their Prayer Jar independently to start a conversation.
Differentiation & Adaptations
- For the Creative Learner: Instead of a jar, create a "Prayer Map" where they draw different rooms of the house and what they can pray for in each room.
- For the Active Learner: Do a "Prayer Walk" around the house or yard. Stop at different items (the fridge, a toy box, a tree) and say a one-sentence prayer for each.
- For the Developing Writer: Use stickers or magazine cut-outs on the prayer sticks instead of writing words.
Assessment
Formative: During the "Everything Brainstorm," observe if the child can categorize their thoughts into thanks or requests.
Summative: At the end of the day or the next morning, ask the child to share one thing they talked to God about that wasn't on their "sticks." This shows they are applying the concept to real-time events.