How to Write an Informal Letter: Simple Guide for Friends & Family

Learn the easy format and friendly tone for writing informal letters! This step-by-step guide covers structure (date, salutation, body, closing, signature), tips for a casual style, and ideas for writing to friends and family.

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Materials Needed:

  • Paper (lined or unlined)
  • Pen or Pencil
  • (Optional) Envelopes and stamps if mailing the letter

Let's Write Like We Talk! An Intro to Informal Letters

Hey there! Ever wanted to send a message that's more personal than a text or email? That's where informal letters come in! Think of them as written conversations with people you know well – friends, family, cousins, maybe even a pen pal.

Unlike formal letters (the kind you might send for a job application or a complaint), informal letters are relaxed, friendly, and use everyday language. You can share news, tell stories, ask questions, and just generally chat on paper.

The Anatomy of a Friendly Letter

Even though they're casual, informal letters still have a basic structure:

  1. The Date: Usually goes in the top right corner. Just write the date you're writing the letter (e.g., October 26, 2023).
  2. The Salutation (Greeting): This is your friendly 'hello'. Start with 'Dear [Name],' followed by a comma. Examples: 'Dear Aunt Carol,', 'Hi Sam,', 'Hey Bestie,'.
  3. The Body: This is the main part of your letter – the chat! It's usually broken into paragraphs. Talk about what you've been up to, ask questions, share funny stories, respond to things they might have written in a previous letter. Keep it conversational!
  4. The Closing: Your friendly 'goodbye'. This goes below the body, slightly indented or aligned with the date. Examples: 'Sincerely,', 'Your friend,', 'Love,', 'Best wishes,', 'Talk soon,'. Put a comma after the closing.
  5. The Signature: Simply sign your name below the closing.

Tone Time! Keeping it Casual

What makes an informal letter feel friendly?

  • Use contractions: 'don't', 'it's', 'you're' are totally fine!
  • Ask questions: Show you're interested in the other person ('How have you been?', 'What did you think of that movie?').
  • Share personal thoughts and feelings: It's okay to be open with friends and family.
  • Use exclamation points (sparingly!): To show excitement.
  • Write like you speak (mostly!): Keep your language natural and comfortable.

Your Turn to Write!

Let's practice! Choose someone you'd like to write to (a friend, grandparent, cousin, sibling, or even a fictional character you like!).

Ideas for your letter:

  • Tell them about something exciting that happened to you recently.
  • Describe a book you just read or a movie you watched.
  • Recall a fun memory you share with them.
  • Ask them for advice about something.
  • Plan something fun you could do together in the future.
  • Just check in and ask how they are doing!

Grab your paper and pen and give it a go! Remember the parts of the letter and keep your tone friendly and conversational. Have fun chatting on paper!